Should, must and have to: advice and rules
Short answer: Use should for advice and must or have to for rules and needs. After should and must, use the plain verb with no to and no -s. Shouldn’t means it is not a good idea. Mustn’t means it is not allowed. Don’t have to means it is not necessary. For he, she and it, say has to, not musts.
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At a glance
| Word | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|
| should | advice, a good idea | You should rest. |
| shouldn’t | not a good idea | She shouldn’t run near the pool. |
| must / have to | necessary, a rule | We must listen to the teacher. |
| mustn’t | not allowed | You mustn’t smoke here. |
| don’t have to | not necessary | They don’t have to clean the room. |
In short
- should: advice. must / have to: rules and needs.
- After should and must: the plain action word.
- don't have to = not needed. mustn't = not allowed.
What is the rule for “Advice and rules: should, must, have to”?
The rule
should: advice. must / have to: a rule or a need. After should and must, the plain action word.
How it looks
should / shouldn't · must / mustn't · have to / has to · don't have to + plain action word
What it means
should: it is a good idea. must: it is necessary. don't have to: it is your choice. mustn't: it is not allowed.
When to use it
Use them to give advice and say rules.
How it works
- Is it advice (a good idea)? Use should.
- Is it a strong rule or a need? Use must or have to.
- After should and must, use the plain verb: should go, must go.
- Mustn’t and don’t have to are different: not allowed versus not needed.
Examples of “Advice and rules: should, must, have to”
- You should rest when you are tired.
Advice. - We must listen to the teacher.
A rule. - She shouldn't run near the pool.
Advice: it is not a good idea. - They don't have to clean the room.
Not needed. - You should drink more water.
Advice. - Students must wear a uniform.
A school rule. - I have to get up at six.
A need from outside. - You don’t have to come early.
It is not necessary.
Common mistakes with “Advice and rules: should, must, have to”
You must to wear a helmet.→ You must wear a helmet.
No to after must.He musts go.→ He must go.
must never takes -s.You mustn't come early. (it is not needed)→ You don't have to come early.
mustn't means not allowed.You should to see a doctor.→ You should see a doctor.
No to after should.She don’t have to wear a uniform.→ She doesn’t have to wear a uniform.
She takes doesn’t.
Exceptions: watch out
- has to
have to changes with he / she / it: He has to bring his book.
Must or have to?
Must and have to are close. Must often shows the speaker’s own feeling. Have to often shows a rule from outside.
| Form | Example | Idea |
|---|---|---|
| must | I must finish this today. | my own decision |
| have to | I have to wear a uniform. | a rule from outside |
| mustn’t | You mustn’t be late. | not allowed |
| don’t have to | You don’t have to come. | not needed |
See also: Future: will and won't
Check yourself
- Choose: “You ___ (should / must) wear a seat belt.” (law)
Show the answer
must A rule.
- Choose: “Tomorrow is a holiday. You ___ come to school.” (don’t have to / mustn’t)
Show the answer
don’t have to It is not necessary.
- Fix: “He musts go.”
Show the answer
He must go. Must never takes -s.
How to practice “Advice and rules: should, must, have to”
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- Practice lesson: Advice and rules: should, must, have to
Questions
What is the past of “must”?
Use had to: I had to leave early. Must has no past form.
Is “should” a rule?
No. It is advice. If you want a rule, use must or have to.
What is the question form?
Should I go? Must I go? Do I have to go? Do you have to go?
More Texts and Talk rules
- Have you ever …? Experience: have / has + the past form tells about something you did (or never did) in your life, up to now.
- already, yet, just: already, yet and just go with have / has and tell about things that happened a short time ago.
- Present perfect or past simple?: A finished time (yesterday, last week) needs the past simple. Experience up to now needs have + the past form.
- unless: unless means if not. It says what could stop something.
- as … as, and comparing actions: as … as says two things are the same. not as … as says one is less. For actions use faster or more carefully.
- Linking sentences: also, however, for example, in the end: also, however, for example and in the end connect sentences. They start a new sentence, so put a full stop before them.
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Reviewed by Chinh Q. Hoang, PhD, founder, English for Fun · 2026-10-30